Archive for October, 2008

Obituary for a Statistic

Last week I went to a funeral. Nomvula is dead. You are asking yourself confusedly who Nomvula was and I will tell you.  To her children, Nomvula was a 27 year old mother who left behind three children aged ten, five and two. Nomvula was the third child of a pensioner mother who had six children, two of whom are now dead before the age of thirty, and three of whom are unemployed. To me, Nomvula was a friend I met while volunteering with an HIV/AIDS community based organisation that continues to struggle to feed the community it serves in Soweto in spite of the number of people it is assisting. But to the world, Nomvula is just another statistic. A statistic of teen pregnancy, a high school drop-out rate in South Africa, a high HIV/AIDS prevalence and so on and so forth. And yet too, although Nomvula and those who have died or live like her or those she left behind may just be statistics of how ‘1.2 billion people live on less than a dollar a day’, tomorrow being October 17th, a day annually marked optimistically as the Day of Poverty Eradication, I thought it fitting to tell Nomvula’s story as one of the victims of that poverty that though we may not eradicate, we need to drastically reduce.

 I am unsure whether much will change in the future for Nomvula’s children, whether their lives will be better than hers. Her mother receives an R840 pension grant (less than US$100 at current exchange rates) and while the family gets some food parcels from the CBO that I got to know Nomvula from, the food is never enough to last the family of seven a week let alone a month when they will receive the next food parcel. Granny subsidises her income by running a shebeen (a home-based liquor outlet). So while hunger is a distant memory of boarding schools to some of us, to Nomvula’s kids it’s a reality and if gogo doesn’t make enough money from her liquor outlet, they will be hungry until the next food parcel comes through. It is admirable that granny is ensuring that her children and grandchildren eat through whatever hustle but one cannot help wondering whether the grandchildren will ever be able to do their homework or study in a house that has drunks from nine in the morning until late at night (serious!).

It is here where I, knowing Nomvula’s family and many other families like hers in the neighbourhood, start wondering whether poverty will always be with us and I should ignore it or whether the world can indeed do something.

If developing nations like South Africa, did not have crazy loans to repay to the developed world, could that money be better used on getting better social services for our people? Now before you start questioning…a lot of the loans that many in the developing world are servicing have often come with ties. Question is, is it really a loan if a country is given US$5 million for, say education then told that 40 percent has to be used to pay a consulting firm which just happens to be from the same country as the loan and yet when the developing nation repays the loan they pay back 100 percent of the $5 million plus interest. Whose interest and in whose interest? And yet many of our governments will take these loans with conditions because we don’t have a cash flow and …may be the gold price will keep rising, may be the next administration will change the fiscal policy to favour the nation, may be may be…well, half a loaf is better than no bread at all and all that. And don’t get me started on forced programs from the Bretton Woods institutions. Everyone knows what happened to Africa’s star pupil of IMF’s ill-thought out Structural Adjustment Programme, Ghana. After implementing the programme as per instruction, situation just got worse and not better for Ghana’s citizens and a few years ago they had to declare themselves one of the 40 Highly Impoverished Poor Countries (HIPC).

Do you know how crazy it is when I sometimes read of these programmes that are always emphasising the need for developing nations to improve infrastructure so that ‘you can attract investors’ and yet well I know that whatever investors do make it to our shores will always end up getting large subsidies for ‘investing’ although generally they will never reinvest that money in our economy but will take it elsewhere (just ask the car manufacturers in my home province of the Eastern Cape). These are the type of programmes that were pushed on Ghana. Imagine how many Nomvulas IMF created in Ghana alone and you have Western economic institutes that do not give a toss about poor nations. We have Western nations and institutes that find it favourable to keep the developing world poor because so long as we owe them and have no economic independence, our governments will always dance to their tune. And seriously if there were no poor countries, what would happen to all those expatriates working at the USAIDs and Oxfams worldwide?

Developing nations continue having the resources but developed nations continue reaping the benefit of those resources. Our people die while we are told to monetary policies we must comply. Hello? What is up with the developing world’s inability to unite for a common cause? Why don’t they ever stand up together for a common cause but rather seem to prefer grabbing whatever peanuts are offered? I keep thinking how powerful Africa, never mind the rest of the developing world, would be if our governments could talk to each other long enough to negotiate deals as blocks instead of as individuals. But alas, ours is always the Look East or Look West Policy but never once, ‘the look within’ policy for solutions to some of our largest problems.

So long as developing nations do not work together, there will be many more Nomvulas in each of our nations.

 

And then there is the other senselessness of the leadership we have in power in our developing countries. No. I am not going to talk about corruption. After all, the corruptees are generally western companies and they are just as guilty. Patricia de Lille would have us believe that South Africa’s greatest tragedy post 1994 – the arms deal- was the corruption shown by the powers-that-be in the post-apartheid government. And while the corruption cannot be wished away, I personally believe that the greatest tragedy was the belief by our government that they needed to procure arms at all when our country is not at war. Could the billions given to arms procurement not have been used for something more useful? Education, or health perhaps so that our doctors can finally get a starting salary that’s higher than some personal assistants and stay in the country so that they can be there for Nomvula and others like her when they need medical advice? I will probably never get the answer to this and many other questions about how our governments are complying in ensuring that our people continue being mired in poverty.

 

What I do hope will happen is that by telling Nomvula’s story, each of us can pause for a moment and think about how we are maintaining the circle of poverty every time we vote in governments whose policy are not pro-poor. We should remember what an indictment it is on us any time another Nomvula dies and we have not questioned those we put in power to find out how they will improve life for the poor. May be it’s time we did more for the poor than just going to the other side of the street when we see one of them or their children coming towards us. May be its time, we who live stand up and make a difference by teaching those who are worse off than we are a trade in our area of expertise.  May be its time we make the rest of our lives worth living by giving more of ourselves to those who are not as fortunate as we are.

Nomvula is dead. We live.

 

S.A. Men Behaving Badly

Saffer watchers will say it’s been a hectic couple of weeks since my last posting, and they could very well be right. I watched with tears streaming down my face as the guy I voted to be President announced his resignation (good political speeches will do that to me). I sat a little fearfully during Ivy’s 14-hour tenure as President (my writer’s imagination had half-hoped she would dissolve Parliament while Acting President. Now that would have brought some awesome drama to an already drama-filled nation). And, although I didn’t vote for him, I accepted the guy whose middle name is Petros as President. And just when I though things were getting back to normal, the Guateng Department of Health talks about the possibilities of an Ebola-like virus in my home province of Gauteng. As is typical of politicians initially they said ‘there was no crisis’ but yesterday the tone changed and we got something akin to ‘be scared. Be very scared.’ But my posting this week has absolutely nothing to do with the politicians. Sure, they are many things I could bash them for but the fact that Julius hasn’t said something in two weeks is cause for celebration rather than male-bashing. No. Today I talk of the ordinary and extraordinary, the average and above-average South African man who has seen it fit to put the nation in record books. Yep. Yet again my dear South Africa has broken records for the wrong reasons. According to a recent news article, the men in our nation are number one in something else…no. Not boozing. That was a few weeks back. This time our men are number one in violence against women.Given that we see the Metrobus going around with adverts reading, ‘you are only half a man if you beat up women’, I am not even sure whether we should call the male species of our nation MEN. In conversation with many women I have become aware that the violence visited on the South African women by South African males transcends race and social class. Can we ever really be a normal society if the males in our society will never see 52% of their society as people who are mature enough to have a normal conversation with but need to be ‘disciplined’ (‘Strue. This phrase has been used) by the physically stronger gender?I think the time has come for a national discourse on gender violence – and please note – I am not bringing it during the 16 Days of Activism against Gender based Violence or during Women’s Month so I think it’s serious enough to warrant a separate discussion. Gents, are you paying attention? Yeah I am talking to you.OK right. Let me carry on then. Here’s a scenario common enough. Man meets woman. Man and woman are attracted to each other. They exchange phone numbers – dinner dates come and during the courting period, they are able to talk to each other with respect like normal human beings. They make love, laugh, fight, the normal stuff that goes on in a relationship. But here are the questions.At what point in time is Man unable to talk to Woman when he met her and related to her through dialogue? At what point does raising his hands to a woman become the solution for anything?And yes, some of you men will claim that you don’t do that and you may very well not do it but you are tarred with the same brush if you know a man who beats up on a woman and you do nothing about it. I recently heard of a story where two couples double dated and someone I know was there as a third (fifth?) wheel. As they were making their way home, Couple A got into a tiff. The male member of Couple A klaaped his partner and continued to moer her while the male species of Couple B looked on. Fifth Wheel (a female) begged the Couple B Penis to do something but his response was that ‘they fight all the time and I don’t want to be involved’. Clearly his friendship with Penis A was much more important than any injury that the woman might suffer at the hands of his friend. Can we then rightly say that this man who watched as the violence went on is an innocent bystander? Is he not just as guilty for standing by and watching it happen instead of doing something? I am not going to give the argument that y’all came from a woman and have sisters and hate it when they are abused. It should not take this woman to remind you of that. What I want to know is, can you really claim to be MEN when you beat women or sit and watch as someone else beats them up? How do you expect us to love you and stand by you if you cannot treat us with the respect that we deserve? Why then blame us when we chose to date or marry ABSA (Anything But South African?). And no brothers, I am not in any way claiming that men of other nationalities are not abusive but this is not about them here. This is about you being the Number 1 Women Beaters – IN THE WORLD! If you aren’t hiding in some bar embarassed to respond to this, SA men talk to me. Talk to us. What’s Up?!?!